Confront Life Is What It Is!

The condition of this world full of pleasure, a lot of options, full appearance, and many colors. All that mixed with anxiety and difficulty life. And, you are part of the world who are in distress.

You will never find a father, wife, friend, friends, shelter, or jobs to which there is not something difficult. In fact, sometimes even in every case there are something bad and you do not like. Therefore, quench the heat was bad in every respect with the coldness of kindness available to him. That is if you want to survive with just and wise. The reason, however every injury has its price.

Allah wants this world as a meeting place for two things opposites, two mutually opposite types, the two camps opposite each other, and two opposing opinions. Namely, the good with the bad, the good with the damage, happiness with sadness. And after that, Allah will gather all the well, it's splendor and happiness in heaven. As for the bad, the damage and sorrow will be collected in hell. "The world is accursed, and accursed all that is in it, except for dhikr of Allah and all that  related to it, an 'alim and a man of learning, "so hadiths said.
So, life is lived in accordance with the existing reality. Do not soluble in fantasy. And, do not ever wander into the nature of imagination. Face life for what it is; control your soul to be able accept and enjoy it! However, it is not possible all friends sincere to you and all things perfect in your eyes. Therefore, sincerity and perfection that characterize the nature of life and the world.
In fact, even your wife will never be perfect in your eyes. So, the word hadith, "Do not be a believer denouncing a mu'minah (his wife), because if he does not like one of his habit so he can receive another habit. "
 Is if we should close ranks, unite step, forgive and be reconciled, taking things easy we do, leave the things that make it difficult, closing the eyes of a few things for certain moments, straightening step, and rule out various things that interfere.
* Written in his book "Laa Tahzan" by Dr. 'Aidh al-Qarni


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Message Ali ibn Abi Talib R.A

"O people, do not ever feel lonely on the road of truth simply because few people were there. Surely most people have come together to face a dish that was only briefly satisfied yet hungry for a long time.

O people, there were really only two things that combine men, the approval of something and its rejection.
Like the murder of a camel Thamud; the slaughter just one person but God's punishment for dropping them all, because they approved the act and not against it. "

"There will come a time when people are brought near by the rulers are those who are good at slander others; who received his words were those who deviated from religion, and are considered stupid are those who tell the truth.

At such times, the dole will be considered a loss, help to relatives only as a tool to show off and worship God as an act of "goody-goody". At that time the power of the country is run based on the advice of women, children's leadership and planning of the pansy. "

"Force yourself to keep growing is good to your brother when he decided the relationship with you. Try to keep it pliable and approached him when he turned away from you. Be generous to him when he showed his stinginess against you. Casually he was when he was away from you.

Face it gently when he exhibited intransigence. Give forgiveness for him when he made a mistake against you, as though you are his slave and he was the one who bestows joy to you. But do not put it all in place, or do it for people who do not deserves it. "

"Do not worry about people who do injustice to you, for he has brought harm to himself and advantage for you. So you should not reply to encouraging people with troubling you."

"If kindness includes a time and the people in it, then someone prejudice against others who have never done reproach, verily he has prevailed unjust. But when a crime has been covering a period with those in it, then someone kindly thought to people who have never known, then it will be very gullible. "

"He who raised him as a leader, should he began teaching himself before teaching others. And he should educate himself by improving his behavior prior to educate others by saying his tongue. People who become educators for himself more worthy of respect than those taught someone else. " 

"Suffice himself with something that is in your hands I liked better for you than your attempt to get what is in the hands of others. Bitterness of failure to have something, sweeter than the asking from others." 

"The best way to keep something that is stored in the container with the lid tightly bind straps. Similarly, do not have time to fix what you said, it is much easier than fixing what you already said."

Hopefully there are some lessons that could be taken and can increasingly positioning ourselves in the face of turbulent tempest that threatens the entire nation's children,  Insya Allah.

 *This is a few strands of words attributed to Imam 'Ali ibn Abu Thalib R.A
Taken from the book "Mutiara Nahjul Balaghah" Sharh given by the Muhammad Abduh "Father of the Islamic Reform"

Re-examined and refined by Mohammed Abdul Hamid Muhyiddin (Lecturer at the Faculty of Arabic Al-Azhar, Egypt), P
ublished by Mizan, translation of Muhammad Al-Baqir.

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